If you are reading this, I assume you are either still pregnant or had your child a while, perhaps years, ago. New parents tend not to have the time nor energy to read websites, though this is when the information can be most vitally useful.
The thing about Life is that there can be a large gap, even a gaping chasm, between your ideal and your reality.
"The most significant thing for a parent to contribute to anyone, is their own Connection and their own stability. An effective parent is a happy parent. An effective parent is a parent who laughs easily and often, and who doesn't take things so seriously." Abraham-Hicks Publications
"Being a Mum is just great, but it can also leave you feeling drained & a lack of motivation. This was just what I needed at the right time. I am just so grateful." Cate T.
I can help you quickly and easily make the changes you need to close that gap. It is possible to feel in control, regain your confidence, and to release any anger, sadness, fear, hurt or guilt you are experiencing.
Perhaps your birthing experience wasn't what you expected. Whether it was a "good" birth according to other people or acknowledged as "traumatic", if YOU don't feel good about your birthing experience that is what is important. Clearing those negative emotions and healing the process can allow you to easily move forward into caring and nurturing for your loved ones. There is no expiry date either, so isn't it better to heal fully now, rather than in 20 years time?
Did you have a great experience but it was your partner who was traumatised and needs support now to bond with your baby or face the thought of another birth?
Are you feeling a lack of connection with your baby? That doesn't make you a "bad" person, but you do need practical support and help right now, to get you back to the loving and nurturing person you know you can be.
If you had to wait a long time for your baby, and/or had to deal with medical issues, you are probably feeling extremely protective of your precious child. That is totally understandable, and I can help you moderate those feelings to a healthy level so your child can thrive and learn to experience the world the way s/he needs to in order to grow into the strong, independent, happy adult you will be proud of.
Has being faced with the 24/7 responsibility of a totally dependent baby totally sapped your self-confidence? You can get back in control and start feeling confident in your own ability to thrive in the parenting role.
Are you feeling disconnected with your partner, and it seems like too much effort to try to sort it out and care for your baby at the same time? I can help both of you reconnect and have the loving pre-baby relationship you had, or better!
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I look forward to helping you quickly and easily make the changes you want to see in your life. Call to make a time to change. Or check out your options here. |